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What are the events like?

Low pressure is the focus! Almost every participant reports being nervous before attending. The comfort in this is that everybody is in the same vulnerable boat. The tone of the event is designed from start to finish to enable you to relax and sink into your joyful and authentic self while enjoying getting to know other men and women. From the moment you enter the event, we have organized activities and conversation starters to keep you engaged and chatting. We encourage participants to come open to meeting new friends, expanding their professional network and of course potentially meeting that special someone. It’s all a win! 

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What if I only see one person of interest at the event?

Temper those expectations! In any crowd, finding that special someone can be like finding a needle in a haystack. Our events mix regulars and newbies, so while one night might seem sparse, another could be a jackpot. Plus, with our community app, you can connect with more singles even after the event. Remember, even making a new friend can lead to meeting your match. So, stay open to all the possibilities!

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What do we mean by a professional?

There are several definitions of professional but here we are referring to a person engaged in a specified activity as one's paid occupation rather than a pastime.

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Can I attend if I am separated?

We ask that all attendees be single, divorced or widowed. 

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What if I am older and typically date younger men/women? Can I attend a younger event?

At WhoU, we strive to ensure that all participants enjoy the experience they signed up for. While you might feel comfortable attending an event meant for a younger age group, it's important to consider that other attendees might prefer meeting peers within the specified range. To offer some flexibility, we have overlapping age ranges by 10 years. We kindly ask that you adhere to these ranges to maintain a balanced and enjoyable event for everyone.

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What is speed dating like and how do I connect with people after the event? 

During our speed dating rounds, participants move from one table to the next, every 4-5 minutes introducing themselves to other single participants. We provide optional conversation prompts to get conversation started. At the event there will be a QR code to scan which will allow you to download our (currently) free networking app. We also encourage participants to download our mobile app. Once you have joined the community, you can set up a profile, message other group members, share an event/ activity you’re going to and encourage others to join you and start discussions. You also have the choice to be proactive at the event and let someone know you enjoyed chatting and would like to again. Get their number or line up a date on the spot.

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Can I register and pay at the door? 

No. It is important to sign up in advance. This helps us prepare and assures that you receive the pre & post event email information and participant contact info.  

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Waitlists & are the events balanced (men/women)? 

WhoU works to provide a consistent quality of event. I will not host an event if I don't have at least  10 women and 10 men and the numbers are balanced.  Events tend to average between 20-40 participants with 40 being the max in order for there to be enough time for everyone to meet during our speed dating rounds. To assure the numbers are balanced, I will sell 12 tickets to women and men to begin. Women typically purchase ahead of men and so in order to assure that we have a balance, once I have sold all of those first release tickets for women, I will start a waitlist. Once the numbers balance I will begin releaseing 5 tickets at a time to the first women on the Eventbrite waitlist until the event.  Having a waiting list assures that those interested are able to get in line to attend when tickets become available.  

 

Even with all of this, there are always challenges to balancing. Someone may get sick or nervous and not attend. We ask that participants let us know so we can let someone else attend, but this does not always happen. If this is the case, you may have a round our two that might be solo. This is a good time to visit the restroom or get another drink.

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Can I get a refund if I don't attend?

Unlike some dating event companies that charge penalties for cancellations or no-shows (e.g., CitySwoon in Chicago), WhoU operates on a commitment-based model. When you purchase a ticket, you are committing not only to attend but also to the other participants and WhoU’s planning efforts.

WhoU prepares for each event by printing materials—including survey responses you provide—and carefully balancing attendance. Ticket sales often close once a balanced number of participants is reached, meaning last-minute cancellations can create imbalances that may not be easy to correct.

That said, we understand that unexpected situations can arise. Here’s what you need to know:

• If the event is canceled due to low registration, we will issue a full refund.

• If the event is not canceled but you cannot attend, you have two options:

  • Ticket Transfer: You may transfer your ticket to a friend for this event or any future event. However, we require at least 48 hours' notice before the event to process the transfer.

  • Event Credit: You may apply your ticket to a future event of your choice, but only if you notify us at least 48 hours in advance that you cannot attend. No-shows are not eligible for event credits or transfers.

We appreciate your understanding and commitment to making our events a great experience for all participants!

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What If someone attends that I am uncomfortable with? 

Our pre-event survey asks you to list anyone you may feel uncomfortable running into at our events. If that person then registers, we will let you know and refund your ticket.

 

If you run into a co-worker you talk with daily or someone you have gone on a date with (didn't work out),  you both may just maturely decide to skip this particular speed-dating round and simply say to the other that you are going to refresh your drink or take the opportunity to use the restroom.

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What should I wear? 

While each event has a bit of a different feel, Comfort is important. Find an outfit you feel confident in and that is the right outfit for this event. Some participants wear jeans and a nice shirt and others wear a dress or suit. Contact WhoU, if you want help shopping for a new look for an event. Check our services page for our personal shopping service.

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Does WhoU do background checks on participants? 

No, please see our terms and conditions. By registering for an event, you are indicating that you have read and agree with our terms and conditions. While we want to create a wonderful event to meet a variety of people, it is your responsibility to follow safe dating procedures. 

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Do you have more questions I didn’t answer? Please contact us with your question.

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